Quick question. Can guys and girls really be good friends? I would like to think that they could, but if they get that close why would they want to be with someone else and not that person.
OK, I will explain the reasoning behind the question. My major hobby besides music is working sheep/cattle dogs. I train with a female who is roughly the same age and has many of the same interest that I do. We are both married, she has a kid, I have a loving/jealous wife, she has a non-caring husband (at least when it comes to her hobbies). Anyway this relationship I have with the other lady is very friendly and we talk openly about our lives to each other. Well this obviously is freaking my wife out, whom I love and want to stay with, however none the less she is freaking out. I enjoy the company of my friend b/c it is nice to have someone else to talk to that shares your interest. I would be lying if I said she wasn't attractive and very outgoing and we can talk for hours about our interest (mainly dogs and other handlers). Getting back to the point, my wife thinks that men and women can never be "just friends". So I want to know.... can we?